You can't fix yourself out of a mental health issue. You can't wake up and say, 'Today I'm not being depressed!' It's a process to get well, but there is recovery.
I tried during the 1974 campaign to show my husband not as the aloof intellectual people think he is, but the warm, passionate man I know. But the day after the election - after I'd worked so hard - I was put back on the shelf. I was devastated.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Margaret Trudeau expresses her disappointment over the lack of recognition for her contributions and her husband's true character during and after his political campaign.
In this quote, Margaret Trudeau reflects on her efforts to portray her husband, Pierre Trudeau, as a relatable and emotional person rather than just an intellectual figure during his campaign. Despite her hard work to humanize him and share the warmth she knows him to possess, she feels sidelined and disheartened by the aftermath of the election, illustrating the often-overlooked role spouses play in politics and the emotional toll it can take on them.
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Example use cases
In a speech highlighting the importance of partnership in marriage, one might reference this quote to emphasize the sacrifices made by spouses.
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The label 'wife of the prime minister' is like a giant signboard pointing at my head from a Monty Python sketch. But I am not Mrs. Prime Minister. I'm a human being.
Do you know what prepares you for the mental hospital? Being a prime minister's wife.
Oh, am I a feminist? I usually say that I was an accidental feminist. Really, I was just being me.
I tried to be a good wife, but I was lost in my gilded cage.
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