We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
If you were dealing with the accumulated repressions of only one lifetime, it would be different. But these are the repressions of numerous lives. Nobody knows how many times you have been born, and how many societies have crushed you. And each time a different society, and all these societies destroying you in different ways... this is why you carry so many inner contradictions.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the complexities of human experience shaped by countless societal influences over multiple lifetimes.
Rajneesh's quote emphasizes the depth of human consciousness and the multitude of societal pressures that contribute to our internal conflicts. By suggesting that individuals carry the weight of repressions from numerous lifetimes and societies, he highlights how these experiences shape our identities and lead to contradictions within ourselves. It underlines the idea that our struggles are not simply about the present but are intertwined with a vast history of social and cultural influences that resonate deeply within our psyche.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about understanding personal struggles during a mental health awareness event.
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