After adolescence, if one's life is sufficiently interesting, the desire to tell oneself stories diminishes.
Interpretation
As we grow older and our lives become more engaging, the need to create narratives for ourselves lessens.
Gore Vidal suggests that during our formative years, storytelling is a vital tool for understanding and interpreting our experiences. However, as we mature and our lives unfold in more captivating ways, the necessity to fabricate narratives about ourselves wanes, as reality becomes rich and interesting enough to live without embellishment.
In practice
In a motivational speech about growing up.
We must declare ourselves, become known; allow the world to discover this subterranean life of ours which connects kings and farm boys, artists and clerks. Let them see that the important thing is not the object of love, but the emotion itself.
American writers want to be not good but great; and so are neither.
Writing fiction has become a priestly business in countries that have lost their faith.
The important thing is not the object of love, but the emotion itself.
For the average American, freedom of speech is simply the freedom to repeat what everyone else is saying and no more.
Ayn Rand's 'philosophy' is nearly perfect in its immorality, which makes the size of her audience all the more ominous and symptomatic as we enter a curious new phase in our society.... To justify and extol human greed and egotism is to my mind not only immoral, but evil.
Consider a man riding a bicycle. Whoever he is, we can say three things about him. We know he got on the bicycle and started to move. We know that at some point he will stop and get off. Most important of all, we know that if at any point between the beginning and the end of his journey he stops moving and does not get off the bicycle he will fall off it. That is a metaphor for the journey through life of any living thing, and I think of any society of living things.
Idle youth, enslaved to everything; by being too sensitive I have wasted my life.
Life is too bitter already, without territories and wars and noble feuds
My hope for all of us is that 'the miles we go before we sleep' will be filled with all the feelings that come from deep caring--delight , sadness, joy, wisdom--and that in all the endings of our life, we will be able to see the new beginnings.
Dear God," she prayed, "let me be something every minute of every hour of my life. Let me be gay; let me be sad. Let me be cold; let me be warm. Let me be hungry...have too much to eat. Let me be ragged or well dressed. Let me be sincere - be deceitful. Let me be truthful; let me be a liar. Let me be honorable and let me sin. Only let me be something every blessed minute. And when I sleep, let me dream all the time so that not one little piece of living is ever lost.
It is not doing the thing we like to do, but liking the thing we have to do, that makes life blessed.
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