There are many things which we can afford to forget which it is yet well to learn.
The advice of the elders to young men is very apt to be as unreal as a list of the hundred best books.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Elders' advice can sometimes be impractical or outdated, similar to subjective lists like the 'hundred best books'.
In this quote, Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr. suggests that the guidance offered by older generations may not always resonate with the realities faced by the youth. He compares this advice to a list of the 'hundred best books', implying that while such lists can be subjective and may reflect the tastes of their compilers rather than universal truths, so too can the wisdom of the elders sometimes miss the mark and appear disconnected from the experiences and challenges of younger individuals.
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Example use cases
In a discussion about generational differences at a community center.
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If you don't know what you want, you will probably never get it.
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Beware how you take away hope from another human being.
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Never assume the obvious is true.
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