We ought not to extract pernicious honey from poison blossoms of misrepresentation and mendacious half-truth, to pamper the course appetite of bigotry and self-love.
Samuel Taylor ColeridgeRead
Advice is like snow - the softer it falls, the longer it dwells upon, and the deeper it sinks into the mind.
Interpretation
This quote suggests that gentle, considerate advice is more impactful and lasting than forceful, harsh advice.
Coleridge's analogy compares advice to snow, implying that the manner in which advice is given can affect its acceptance and retention. Softer, more compassionate advice tends to be more deeply absorbed and contemplated, leading to a stronger and more enduring impact on the recipient's thoughts and actions.
In practice
In a motivational talk about leadership, someone might reference this quote to highlight the importance of providing constructive and gentle feedback.
We ought not to extract pernicious honey from poison blossoms of misrepresentation and mendacious half-truth, to pamper the course appetite of bigotry and self-love.
Common sense in an uncommon degree is what the world calls wisdom.
And all who heard should see them there, And all should cry, Beware! Beware! His flashing eyes, his floating hair! Weave a circle round him thrice, And close your eyes with holy dread, For he on honey-dew hath fed, And drunk the milk of Paradise.
Often do the spirits stride on before the event; and in today already walks tomorrow.
Mr. Lyell's system of geology is just half the truth, and no more. He affirms a great deal that is true, and he denies a great deal which is equally true; which is the general characteristic of all systems not embracing the whole truth.
To believe and to understand are not diverse things, but the same things in different periods of growth.
Muddled thinking inevitably results in muddled living
Many things which nature makes difficult become easy to the man who uses his brains.
When you win and the other fellow loses, what do you see? A losing face. There is great joy in losing and making the other person win and have a happy face. Who will be the happiest person? The one who brings happiness to others.
What was alien was being ordinary, being humdrum, being trapped into appeasing...having to crush and stifle my opinions, not being allowed to be brilliant, tricking myself into mediocrity.
Excellence is to do a common thing in an uncommon way.
The next time you feel unworthy, inadequate or inferior, remember that these experiences have nothing to do with humbleness, any more than lowering yourself to connect with another individual has to do with humbleness. There are no lower or higher individuals in the perception of a humble person. There are only souls. There is only love.
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