It's so curious: one can resist tears and 'behave' very well in the hardest hours of grief. But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer... and everything collapses.
I did not look for her, because I was afraid of dispelling the mystery we attach to people whom we know only casually.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects the idea that knowing someone too closely can diminish the allure of mystery in relationships.
Sidonie Gabrielle Colette's quote suggests that the intrigue and fascination we hold for people we do not know well can be lost when we allow ourselves to become closer to them. This apprehension stems from the belief that familiarity can strip away the enchanting layers that make individuals captivating, leaving behind the mundane aspects of their personalities. In essence, it highlights the tension between the desire for intimacy and the fear of losing the mystique that surrounds our perceptions of others.
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Example use cases
This quote could be used in a discussion about the complexities of relationships during a psychology class.
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