Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
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By the age of forty, a man is responsible for his face. And his fate.
Interpretation
By the age of forty, individuals should acknowledge that their life choices have shaped who they are.
This quote emphasizes that by the age of forty, a person has likely reached a point where their experiences and choices are reflected in their character and appearance. It implies that one's life decisions directly contribute to their current situation, reinforcing personal accountability and the importance of self-awareness in shaping one's destiny.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal growth, one can use this quote to emphasize accountability.
Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
I love America because it is a confused, chaotic mess - and I hope we can keep it this way for at least another thousand years. The permissive society is the free society.
If it's knowledge and wisdom you want, then seek out the company of those who do real work for an honest purpose.
The earth is real. Only a fool, milking his cow, denies the cow's reality.
I believe in nothing that I cannot touch, kiss, embrace.... The rest is only hearsay.
Why can't we simply borrow what is useful to us from Buddhism, Hinduism, Taoism, especially Zen, as we borrow from Christianity, science, American Indian traditions and world literature in general, including philosophy, and let the rest go hang? Borrow what we need but rely principally upon our own senses, common sense and daily living experience.
Do not allow your heart to take pleasure with the praises of people, nor be saddened by their condemnation.
I've always felt that a person's intelligence is directly reflected by the number of conflicting points of view he can entertain simultaneously on the same topic.
Imaginary obstacles are insurmountable. Real ones aren't. But you can't tell the difference when you have no real information. Fear can create even more imaginary obstacles than ignorance can. That's why the smallest step away from speculation and into reality can be an amazing relief...The Reality Solution means: Do it before you're ready.
Today's headlines and history's judgment are rarely the same. If you are too attentive to the former, you will most certainly not do the hard work of securing the latter.
We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers - but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change.
Ultimately there is light and love and intelligence in this universe. And we are it, we carry that within us, itβs not just something out there, it is within us and this is what we are trying to re-connect with, our original light and love and intelligence, which is who we are, so do not get so distracted by all this other stuff, you know, really remember what we are here on this planet for.
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