If people start to buy the idea that machines are great companions for the elderly or for children, as they increasingly seem to do, we are really playing with fire.
Sherry TurkleRead
We are inhibited from aggression by the presence of another face, another person. We're aware that we're with a human being. On the Internet, we are disinhibited from taking into full account that we are in the presence of another human being.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights how face-to-face interactions inhibit aggressive behavior, whereas online interactions can lead to disinhibition.
Sherry Turkle emphasizes the importance of physical presence in moderating our behavior, particularly aggression. She suggests that in face-to-face interactions, we are more conscious of our actions and their impact on others, while the anonymity of the Internet can lead to a lack of empathy and inhibition, resulting in more aggressive or inappropriate behaviors. This disparity illustrates how context and familiarity with another person can shape our moral and social conduct.
Themes
AggressionInternetDisinhibitionHuman BehaviorPresence
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about online bullying, one might refer to this quote to illustrate the difference in behavior in digital spaces compared to physical interactions.
More from Sherry Turkle
All quotes →We live in a technological universe in which we are always communicating. And yet we have sacrificed conversation for mere connection.
Sherry TurkleRead
The most used program in computers and education is PowerPoint. What are you learning about the nature of the medium by knowing how do to a great PowerPoint presentation? Nothing. It certainly doesn't teach you how to think critically about living in a culture of simulation.
Sherry TurkleRead
Technology is seductive when what it offers meets our human vulnerabilities. And as it turns out, we are very vulnerable indeed. We are lonely but fearful of intimacy. Digital connections and the sociable robot may offer the illusion of companionship without the demands of friendship. Our networked life allows us to hide from each other, even as we are tethered to each other. We’d rather text than talk.
Sherry TurkleRead
Human relationships are rich and they're messy and they're demanding. And we clean them up with technology. Texting, email, posting, all of these things let us present the self as we want to be. We get to edit, and that means we get to delete, and that means we get to retouch, the face, the voice, the flesh, the body -- not too little, not too much, just right.
Sherry TurkleRead
The feeling that 'no one is listening to me' make us want to spend time with machines that seem to care about us.
Sherry TurkleRead
Similar quotes
I do not fear computers. I fear the lack of them.
Isaac AsimovRead
Digital presentation is just television in public; we're all just getting together and watching TV without pointing the remote control at the screen.
Quentin TarantinoRead
We loved cars until the '70s or so. Then they became appliances. They turned into motorized cup holders. Most of it has to do with urban sprawl. What began as pleasure ends up in necessity, as so many things do.
P. J. O'RourkeRead
I believe quite simply that the small company of the future will be as much a research organization as it is a manufacturing company.
Edwin LandRead
I think that in an Internet age, content is content. As long as you can stand up on the merits of what you're doing right at that moment and aren't just relying on your success in doing something else, it's all good; people will respect you.
Riz AhmedRead
Computers are still technology because we are still wrestling with it: it's still being invented; we're still trying to work out how it works. There's a world of game interaction to come that you or I wouldn't recognise. It's time for the machines to disappear. The computer's got to disappear into all of the things we use.
Douglas AdamsRead