To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
Mahatma GandhiRead
The ally we must cultivate is the part of our enemy which knows the truth.
Interpretation
We should recognize that even our enemies may hold truths that can help us grow and improve.
In this quote, Mahatma Gandhi emphasizes the importance of understanding and acknowledging the aspects of our adversaries that possess truth and honesty. By doing so, we can foster a better dialogue and potentially transform conflict into constructive engagement, ultimately leading to deeper insights and resolutions.
In practice
In a team meeting to encourage collaboration and open-mindedness.
To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
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Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
The real test of nonviolence lies in its being brought in contact with those who have contempt for it.
Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.
The devotion of such titans of spirit as Lenin to an Ideal must bear fruit. The nobility of his selflessness will be an example through centuries to come, and his Ideal will reach perfection.
Habits are the daughters of action, but then they nurse their mother, and produce daughters after her image, but far more beautiful and prosperous.
Like many intellectuals, he was incapable of saying a simple thing in a simple way.
After all, the wrong is done. It is past and cannot be changed. We have only the present and the future upon which to move forward.
Language creates reality. Words have power. Speak always to create joy.
When I pontificate, it sounds so, you know, Oh, well, she's preaching. I'm not preaching, but I think maybe I learned it from my animal friends. Kindness and consideration of somebody besides yourself. I think that keeps you feeling young. I really do.
The compensation of a very early success is a conviction that life is a romantic matter. In the best sense one stays young.
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