When we don't like to face up to hard facts, we use soft words. We do not speak about killing a baby within the womb, but about "termination of potential life." Words are often multiplied to try to cover dark deeds.
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Although goal setting can clearly be overdone, only a few people are overly involved with goals and goal setting; most people do far too little goal setting, including the reflecting that precedes the setting of such goals. Too many marriages have financial goals but not other explicit goals. Yet the gospel is certainly goal-oriented.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of setting various types of goals in life, particularly in relationships, beyond just financial ones.
Neal A. Maxwell points out that while it is possible to become excessively focused on goal setting, the greater issue is that many individuals do not engage in enough reflection or planning for their goals, especially in the context of marriages. He suggests that financial goals are often prioritized, but establishing emotional and relational goals is equally crucial for a healthy partnership, aligning with the idea that a fulfilling life should be driven by diverse and meaningful objectives.
Themes
Goal SettingRelationshipsMarriageFinancial GoalsReflection
In practice
Example use cases
In a workshop on marital success, one might quote Maxwell to emphasize the need for couples to set diverse goals together.
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