Life with most teenagers was like having a low-grade bladder infection. It hurts, but you had to tough it out.
They always threw their arms around and hugged me while crying our Yiddish endearments. Yet none of them believed in God. They believed in social justice, good works, Israel, and Bette Midler. I was nearly thirty before I met a religious Jew.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects on the love and warmth of non-religious Jewish culture, emphasizing values like social justice over religious belief.
Anne Lamott's quote highlights her childhood experiences with a Jewish community that expressed love and emotional support through physical affection and shared cultural traditions, despite lacking religious belief. It underscores the idea that deep human connections and shared values, such as social justice and community, can thrive independently of religious frameworks, showcasing the diverse ways people find meaning and connection in their lives.
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This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of community and social values.
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All quotes →Or you might shout at the top of your lungs or whisper into your sleeve, "I hate you, God." That is a prayer too, because it is real, it is truth, and maybe it is the first sincere thought you've had in months.
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It is hard to remember that you are a cherished spiritual being when you're burping up apple fritters and Cheetos.
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...because when people have seen you at their worst, you don't have to put on the mask as much.
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