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It is always difficult to give oneself up; few persons anywhere ever succeed in doing so, and even fewer transcend the possessive stage to know love for what it actually is: a perpetual discovery, and immersion in the waters of reality, an unending re-creation.
Octavio Paz
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Interpretation

What this quote means

True love requires selflessness and an ongoing exploration of reality.

In this quote, Octavio Paz expresses the idea that surrendering oneself fully to love is a challenging endeavor that only a few people achieve. True love is depicted not just as possession or a fixed state, but as a dynamic process of continuous discovery and engagement with the truth of existence, emphasizing how love evolves and deepens over time.

Themes

LoveSelflessnessDiscoveryRealityTranscendence

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be shared in a discussion about the nature of love in a relationship seminar.

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