You always pay too much. Particularly for promises. There aint no such thing as a bargain promise.
Interpretation
Promises often come with hidden costs, and trusting them can lead to disappointment.
Cormac McCarthy's quote highlights the idea that promises, while seemingly valuable, often carry a greater cost than we realize. The suggestion is that one should be wary of trusting promises too easily, as they can lead to unmet expectations and potential regret. In essence, it speaks to the nature of trust and the complexities of human commitments.
In practice
Using this quote in a discussion about trust in relationships can highlight the importance of being cautious with promises.
Yet it is the narrative that is the life of the dream while the events themselves are often interchangeable. The events of the waking world on the other hand are forced upon us and the narrative is the unguessed axis along which they must be strung.
See the hand that nursed the serpent. The fine hasped pipes of her fingerbones. The skin bewenned and speckled. The veins are milkblue and bulby. A thin gold ring set with diamonds. That raised the once child's heart of her to agonies of passion before I was. Here is the anguish of mortality. Hopes wrecked, love sundered. See the mother sorrowing. How everything that I was warned of's come to pass.
What he could bear in the waking world he could not by night and he sat awake for fear the dream would return.
The judge placed his hands on the ground. He looked at his inquisitor. This is my claim, he said. And yet everywhere upon it are pockets of autonomous life. Autonomous. In order for it to be mine nothing must be permitted to occur upon it save by my dispensation.
Only now is the child finally divested of all that he has been. His origins are become remote as is his destiny and not again in all the world's turning will there be terrains so wild and barbarous to try whether the stuff of creation may be shaped to man's will or whether his own heart is not another kind of clay.
He knew only that his child was his warrant. He said: If he is not the word of God God never spoke.
We must not look at goblin men, We must not buy their fruits: Who knows upon what soil they fed Their hungry thirsty roots?
There was a point in my 40s when I went into the bathroom with a bottle of wine, locked the door, and said, 'I'm not coming out until I can totally accept the way that I look right now.'
In both writing and sleeping, we learn to be physically still at the same time we are encouraging our minds to unlock from the humdrum rational thinking of our daytime lives.
All I know is just what I read in the papers, and that's an alibi for my ignorance.
For most of us, I think it's easier to admit doing wrong than being stupid.
Thought and theory must precede all salutary action; yet action is nobler in itself than either thought or theory.
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