You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
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I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the cultural belief in pursuing profound happiness, particularly through romantic love.
Elizabeth Gilbert articulates the idea that the search for happiness is a fundamental right and expectation in her culture. She highlights that this pursuit is not only about any form of happiness, but aiming for a deep, fulfilling joy, which she associates most closely with romantic love. Through this lens, love becomes a key avenue for achieving the ultimate state of happiness.
Themes
HappinessLovePursuitCultureJoy
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a speech about love and relationships.
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