You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
Arthur AsheRead
Always have the situation under control, even if losing. Never betray an inward sense of defeat.
Interpretation
Stay in control of your feelings and actions, even in adversity.
Arthur Ashe's quote emphasizes the importance of maintaining composure and self-control, even in challenging situations. It suggests that one should never succumb to feelings of defeat, as inner strength and resilience are crucial for overcoming obstacles and achieving success.
In practice
In a motivational speech to students about facing challenges.
You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
A wise person decides slowly but abides by these decisions.
When we were together, I loved you deeply and you gave me so much happiness I can never repay you.
I have always tried to be true to myself, to pick those battles I felt were important. My ultimate responsibility is to myself. I could never be anything else.
It is not just the more talented player who wins. Some players may try a little harder.
True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.
Turn up for work. Discipline allows creative freedom. No discipline equals no freedom.
That walk around the block, that fresh air, is going to help you work more quickly and effectively when you get back.
Many people say, "Well, I'd love to make a decision like that, but I'm not sure how I could change my life." They're paralyzed by the fear that they don't know exactly how to turn their dreams into reality. And as a result, they never make the decisions that could make their lives into the masterpieces they deserve to be. I'm here to tell you that it's not important initially to know how you're going to create a result. What's important is to decide you will find a way, no matter what.
There are those who advocate, and those who do. I'm not trying to slight my peers, but there is a difference between using a soapbox and actually getting your hands dirty. I've spent not only years and millions of dollars but hours and hours and hours of my time doing what I do, and that's very different from what anyone else is doing.
There's nothing wrong with having a plan. Plans are great. But missions are better. Missions survive when plans fail, and plans almost always fail.
An Airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.
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