You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
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This is so American, man: either make something your God and cosmos and then worship it, or else kill it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote explores the extremes of devotion and rejection in American culture.
David Foster Wallace's quote reflects on the dualistic nature of American society, where individuals often feel compelled to either idolize something, elevating it to god-like status, or dismiss it entirely. This stark binary reveals the intense dedication and subsequent disillusionment that can characterize modern life, suggesting that such polarized views can lead to a loss of nuance in navigating beliefs and values.
Themes
AmericanDevotionIdolatryCultureExtremes
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion on cultural values, one might reference this quote to illustrate the intensity of American beliefs.
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