You don't learn how to say 'hey, I have a problem,' but you also don't learn how to hear it. There's a total breakdown of how females talk to one another. It's very disconcerting for leadership because it means you don't talk to each other; you talk about each other.
All around me, I see girls forced to become rat racers in the College Application Industrial Complex, the subculture where students must craft themselves into the perfect specimens for college admission and often lose their authenticity, love of learning, and sense of self in the process.
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What this quote means
The quote highlights the pressures on students to conform for college admissions, often sacrificing their true selves and passions.
Rachel Simmons critiques the societal pressure on students, particularly girls, to fit into a mold of perfection for college applications. This 'College Application Industrial Complex' encourages a competitive environment where authenticity, genuine love for learning, and personal identity are compromised in favor of presenting an idealized version of oneself, leading to a loss of individuality and deeper passions.
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During a school assembly discussing college readiness, this quote can illustrate the importance of staying true to oneself.
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