I pray with my whole soul that the divide-and-conquerers among us will not triumph over us. We need each other in this world so desperately.
We both grew up in the atmosphere of struggle, both Ossie and me, ... I come out of Harlem and Harlem comes out of me - wailing police sirens and street parties, rumors and landlords, that cultural, spiritual scene. And Ossie came up from the South, where struggle and dying were part of everyday life. That is who we are.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects on the shared experiences of struggle and resilience shaped by one's environment.
Ruby Dee's quote describes how personal identity and character are formed by the struggles and cultural backgrounds of individuals. She highlights her upbringing in Harlem with its challenges and vibrant cultural scene, alongside Ossie's experiences from the South, illustrating that their shared origins of struggle and perseverance define who they are. This deep connection to their roots emphasizes the importance of understanding one's history in shaping personal identity.
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In a speech about resilience, one might quote Ruby Dee to illustrate the power of shared struggle in shaping identity.
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