The basis of the self is not thought but suffering, which is the most fundamental of all feelings. While it suffers, not even a cat can doubt its unique and uninterchangeable self. In intense suffering the world disappears and each of us is alone with his self. Suffering is the university of ego-centrism.
Interpretation
Suffering shapes our sense of self and individuality, revealing our true essence.
In this quote, Milan Kundera suggests that our identity is deeply intertwined with our experiences of suffering. He posits that while we may often think of ourselves in relation to others, it is through suffering that we confront the essence of our individuality, highlighting the isolating yet defining nature of personal pain. This profound experience forces a confrontation with our unique selves, emphasizing how suffering can lead to a deeper understanding of one's existence and the ego's central role in our perception of reality.
In practice
In a speech about mental health, one might reference this quote to underscore the reality of suffering in shaping identity.
Which doesn't mean, of course, that I'd stopped loving her, that I'd forgotten her, or that her image had paled; on the contrary; in the form of a quiet nostalgia she remained constantly within me; I longed for her as one longs for something definitively lost.
Facts mean little compared to attitudes. To contradict rumor or sentiment is as futile as arguing against a believer's faith in the Immaculate Conception. You have simply become a victim of faith, Comrade Assistant.
While people are fairly young and the musical composition of their lives is still in its opening bars, they can go about writing it together and sharing motifs (the way Tomas and Sabina exchanged the motif of the bowler hat), but if they meet when they are older, like Franz and Sabina, their musical compositions are more or less complete, and every motif, every object, every word means something different to each of them.
Mankind's true moral test, its fundamental test (which lies deeply buried from view), consists of its attitude towards those who are at its mercy: animals. And in this respect mankind has suffered a fundamental debacle, a debacle so fundamental that all others stem from it.
To sit with a dog on a hillside on a glorious afternoon is to be back in Eden, where doing nothing was not boring - it was peace.
Sensuality is the total mobilization of the senses: an individual observes his partner intently, straining to catch every sound.
All wars are follies, very expensive and very mischievous ones.
If we want to save the world, we must have a plan. But no plan will work unless we meditate.
Thus this Earth resembles a great animall or rather an inanimate vegetable, draws in aethereal breath for its dayly refreshment and vitall ferment and transpires again grosses exhalations. And, according to the condition of all other things living, ought to have its time of beginning, youth, old age and perishing.
Just in the nick of time they realized that it was their own habitat they were wrecking -- that they weren't merely visitors.
If that glad message of your Bible were written in your faces, you would not need to demand belief in the authority of that book in such stiff-necked fashion.
Authors from whom others steal should not complain, but rejoice. Where there is no game there are no poachers.
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