Heart, we will forget him, You and I, tonight! You must forget the warmth he gave, I will forget the light.
Emily DickinsonRead
My best Acquaintances are those With Whom I spoke no Word
Interpretation
True connections can exist beyond spoken words.
Emily Dickinson highlights the profound nature of companionship that transcends verbal communication. She suggests that the depth of understanding and affection between individuals can often be felt in silence, where shared experiences and emotional resonance create a bond stronger than words could convey.
In practice
In a toast at a wedding, to celebrate the profound bond between two people who understand each other without words.
Heart, we will forget him, You and I, tonight! You must forget the warmth he gave, I will forget the light.
I held a jewel in my fingers And went to sleep. The day was warm, and winds were prosy; I said: "'T will keep." I woke and chid my honest fingers,β The gem was gone; And now an amethyst remembrance Is all I own.
I'll tell you how the sun rose, a ribbon at a time. The steeples swam in amethyst, The news like squirrels ran. The hills untied their bonnets, The bobolinks begun. Then I said softly to myself, "That must have been the sun!
This is the Hour of Lead- Remembered, if outlived, As freezing persons, recollect the Snow- First-Chill-then Stupor- then the letting go---
Luck is not chance, it's toil; fortune's expensive smile is earned.
God is not so wary as we, else He would give us no friends, lest we forget Him! The charms of the heaven in the bush are superseded, I fear, by the heaven in the hand, occasionally.
One of the most mawkish of human delusions is the notion that friendship should be eternal, or, at all events, life-long, and that any act which puts a term to it is somehow discreditable.
Friendship is an arrangement by which we undertake to exchange small favors for big ones.
When I was young I asked more of people than they could give: everlasting friendship, endless feeling. Now I know to ask less of them than they can give: a straightforward companionship. And their feelings, their friendship, their generous actions seem in my eyes to be wholly miraculous: a consequence of grace alone.
As hard as it is and as tired as I am, I force myself to get dinner at least once a week with my girlfriends, or have a sleepover. Otherwise my life is just work.
Perhaps the most delightful friendships are those in which there is much agreement, much disputation, and yet more personal liking.
To make a point of declaring friendship is to cheapen it. For men's emotions are very rarely put into words successfully.
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