I can only note that the past is beautiful because one never realises an emotion at the time. It expands later, and thus we don't have complete emotions about the present, only about the past.
Virginia WoolfRead
If the best of one's feelings means nothing to the person most concerned in those feelings, what reality is left us?
Interpretation
This quote reflects on the importance of mutual emotional investment in relationships.
Virginia Woolf's quote highlights the significance of emotional connections in our relationships. When one's genuine feelings do not resonate or matter to the person they are directed towards, it raises existential questions about the nature of reality and the value of those feelings, suggesting that the essence of our interactions is deeply rooted in mutual recognition and care.
In practice
During a discussion on emotional healing, one might use this quote to illustrate the importance of being valued in relationships.
I can only note that the past is beautiful because one never realises an emotion at the time. It expands later, and thus we don't have complete emotions about the present, only about the past.
Death is woven in with the violets,β said Louis. βDeath and again death.β)
He began to search among the infinite series of impressions which time had laid down, leaf upon leaf, fold upon fold softly, incessantly upon his brain; among scents, sounds; voices, harsh, hollow, sweet; and lights passing, and brooms tapping; and the wash and hush of the sea.
I want to think quietly, calmly, spaciously, never to be interrupted, never to have to rise from my chair, to slip easily from one thing to another, without any sense of hostility, or obstacle. I want to sink deeper and deeper, away from the surface, with its hard separate facts.
I do think all good and evil comes from words. I have to tune myself into a good temper with something musical, and I run to a book as a child to its mother.
London perpetually attracts, stimulates, gives me a play and a story and a poem, without any trouble, save that of moving my legs through the streets... To walk alone through London is the greatest rest.
It only takes a second to call a girl fat and She'll take a lifetime trying to starve herself.. think before you act.
Because our ancestors lived in social groups that changed slowly, because they encountered the same people throughout their lives, they could keep almost every social detail they needed to know in their heads.
At the core of all anger is a need that is not being fulfilled.
Labeling people single parents, for example, when they may in fact be co-parenting - either with an unmarried other parent in the home or with an ex-spouse in a joint custody situation - stigmatizes their children as the products of 'single parenthood' and makes the uncounted parent invisible to society.
In marriage you are not sacrificing yourself to the other person. You are sacrificing yourself to the relationship.
It was inevitable, of course, but somehow it didn't seem right to Alex that they would never remember the sound of Carly's laughter, or know how deeply she'd once loved them.
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