We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
OvidRead
Let me tell you I am better acquainted with you for a long absence, as men are with themselves for a long affliction: absence does but hold off a friend, to make one see him the truer.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Absence can deepen the understanding and appreciation of friendships.
In this quote, Ovid reflects on the value of absence in relationships, suggesting that being away from a friend allows for greater comprehension of their true nature, similarly to how personal suffering can lead to deeper self-awareness. He implies that distance may actually enhance the significance and clarity of friendships, as one can truly appreciate another's value when separated.
Themes
AbsenceFriendshipAppreciationSelf-AwarenessRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be shared at a gathering of friends who haven't seen each other in a long time, to underscore the value of their reunion.
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