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It is better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than to lose that someone you love with your useless pride.
John Ruskin
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Prioritizing love over pride is essential for maintaining relationships.

This quote emphasizes the importance of valuing love over personal pride. It suggests that it is wiser to humble oneself in the face of love than to let pride disrupt or destroy a valuable relationship. By letting go of pride, one can preserve the bond and love shared with another person.

Themes

LovePrideRelationshipsHumilityConnection

In practice

Example use cases

During a breakup conversation to emphasize the importance of reconciliation.

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