Most writers tend to get worse rather than better. I'm determined to be one that gets better.
Edmund WhiteRead
If bigots oppose gay marriage so vehemently, it must be because marriage is a defining institution for them; gays will never be fully accepted until they can marry and adopt, like anyone else.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the importance of marriage as a social institution and the struggle for acceptance faced by the LGBTQ+ community.
Edmund White suggests that the strong opposition from bigots towards gay marriage stems from the belief that marriage is a fundamental institution that defines identity and social acceptance. He argues that true equality and acceptance for the LGBTQ+ community will only come when they are granted the same rights to marry and adopt as heterosexual individuals, emphasizing the significance of marriage in achieving broader societal acceptance.
Themes
BigotsGay MarriageAcceptanceInstitutionLgbtq+
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion on social justice, one might use this quote to highlight the importance of inclusivity in marriage rights.
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