Bone by bone, hair by hair, Wild Woman comes back. Through night dreams, through events half understood and half remembered.
Interpretation
This quote suggests a journey of reclaiming one's true self, comprising fragmented memories and dreams.
Clarissa Pinkola Estes' quote reflects on the process of self-discovery and empowerment, emphasizing the gradual reclamation of one's identity, which may involve navigating through dreams and the complexities of past memories. The imagery of 'Bone by bone, hair by hair' evokes a sense of rebuilding oneself from the core, symbolizing a deep and personal return to authenticity, particularly for women who have struggled with societal expectations or trauma.
In practice
In a women's empowerment workshop, to inspire participants to embrace their journey of self-discovery.
Asking the proper question is the central action of transformation- in fairy tales, in analysis, and in individuation. The key question causes germination of consciousness. The properly shaped question always emanates from an essential curiosity about what stands behind. Questions are the keys that cause the secret doors of the psyche to swing open.
Tears are a river that takes you somewhere…Tears lift your boat off the rocks, off dry ground, carrying it downriver to someplace better.
Though fairy tales end after ten pages, our lives do not. We are multi-volume sets. In our lives, even though one episode amounts to a crash and burn, there is always another episode awaiting us and then another. There are always more opportunities to get it right, to fashion our lives in the ways we deserve to have them. Don't waste your time hating a failure. Failure is a greater teacher than success.
Stories are medicine. They have such power; they do not require that we do, be, act anything - we need only listen.
There's a reason poets often say, 'Poetry saved my life,' for often the blank page is the only one listening to the soul's suffering, the only one registering the story completely, the only one receiving all softly and without condemnation.
To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.
Sober up, and you see and hear everything you'd been able to avoid hearing before.
The beauty of getting older is the surprise of what else you can do to make the world a better place with the wisdom that you've accrued over those years.
I'll tell you that for me, one when someone used to say something that was true, one way I knew it was true was that I immediately felt defensive. I blocked it off, and I went to war with them in my mind and suffered all that goes with it. And they were only saying what was true.
Perfectionism is really a manifestation of the belief that one's efforts are never good enough. Imagine: How many of the obstacles standing in your way are the product of your own imagination? What have you convinced yourself that you can't do? What limitations have you come to believe in? Your mind is very powerful and effective. Is it working for you, or against you?
Abandon cleverness, discard profit, and thieves and robbers will disappear.
Not everyone can wait: neither the sated nor the satisfied nor those without respect can wait. The only ones who can wait are people who carry restlessness around with them.
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