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To admonish your brother in private is to advise him and improve him. But to admonish him publicly is to disgrace and shame him.
Al-Shafii
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Advising someone privately helps them grow, while public criticism can humiliate them.

This quote highlights the importance of how we approach correction or advice in our relationships. By admonishing someone in private, we foster personal growth and understanding, preserving their dignity. In contrast, public admonishment can often lead to feelings of shame and disgrace, damaging the relationship and hindering any constructive outcomes.

Themes

AdmonishmentPrivatePublicRelationshipsRespectGrowth

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be shared during a team-building workshop to emphasize respectful feedback.

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