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A buddha laughs too, but his laughter has the quality of a smile. His laughter has the feminine quality of grace. When an ignorant person laughs, his laughter is very aggressive, egoistic. The ignorant person always laughs at others. The contented person, the person who knows life a little, laughs at himself - at the whole play of life itself. It is not addressed to anybody in particular. He just laughs at the absurdity of it all... the impossibility of it all.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True laughter comes from understanding and grace rather than ego and disdain.
This quote emphasizes the nature of laughter and how it reflects one's understanding of life. A wise person's laughter stems from a place of contentment and self-awareness, laughing at the absurdities of life rather than mocking others, while ignorant laughter is rooted in aggression and ego. It conveys that true joy is found in acceptance and grace rather than judgment.
Themes
LaughterWisdomContentmentAbsurdityGraceSelf-Awareness
In practice
Example use cases
In a keynote speech about resilience, one might say: 'As Rajneesh reminds us, true laughter is rooted in understanding the absurdity of life.'
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