Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
Why can't these American women stay in their own country? They are always telling us that it is the paradise for women. It is. That is the reason why, like Eve, they are so excessively anxious to get out of it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Wilde critiques the notion of America as a paradise for women, suggesting that their desire to escape reveals deeper truths about their reality.
In this quote, Oscar Wilde comments on the contradictory nature of the American perception of gender equality. He implies that while America is often touted as a paradise for women, the fact that women are eager to leave suggests that their experiences may not align with this idealized vision. By referencing Eve from biblical lore, Wilde evokes themes of temptation and discontent, highlighting the complexities of women's lives and the societal expectations placed upon them.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
During a women's rights conference to highlight the struggles women face worldwide.
More from Oscar Wilde
All quotes →London is too full of fogs and serious people. Whether the fogs produce the serious people, or whether the serious people produce the fogs, I don't know.
When one has never heard a man's name in the course of one's life, it speaks volumes for him; he must be quite respectable.
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.
A truth ceases to be true when more than one person believes in it.
His morality is all sympathy, just what morality should be
Similar quotes
They'd smash up the world if they thought it would make a pretty noise.
People learn to shop for churches; there is no loyalty to the church. They're consumers being attracted to one product or another. I think it's sacrilege, to tell you the truth, it really is.
In Gethsemane the holiest of all petitioners prayed three times that a certain cup might pass from Him. It did not.
Ideas, unlike solid structures, do not perish. They remain immortal, immaterial and everywhere, like all Divine things. Ideas are a golden, savage landscape that we wander unaware, without a map. Be careful: in the last analysis, reality may be exactly what we think it is.
All of history is moving toward one great goal, the white-hot worship of God and His Son among all the peoples of the earth. Missions is not that goal. It is the means. And for that reason it is the second greatest human activity in the world.
What a powerful thing to know: That one's own desires are mappable onto strangers; that what one finds in oneself will most certainly be found in The Other.