Do not live with a vocation that is harmful to humans and nature. Do not invest in companies that deprive others of their chance to live. Select a vocation that helps realise your ideal of compassion.
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If we do not know how to take care of ourselves and to love ourselves, we cannot take care of the people we love. Loving oneself is the foundation for loving another person.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Self-love is essential for loving others.
This quote emphasizes the importance of self-care and self-love as prerequisites for genuinely caring for and loving others. It suggests that to be able to nurture relationships with others, one must first cultivate a healthy relationship with oneself, as this forms the bedrock of meaningful connections.
Themes
Self-LoveCareRelationshipsNurturingFoundation
In practice
Example use cases
During a self-care workshop, this quote can be shared to highlight its significance.
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