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If he didn't care about you, you couldn't upset him.
Neil Gaiman
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote highlights that emotional reactions often indicate a deep connection or care for someone.

Neil Gaiman's quote suggests that if someone is genuinely invested in another person, their feelings will be affected by that relationship. The ability to upset someone reflects their emotional attachment and concern, indicating that you hold significance in their life.

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RelationshipsEmotionsCareConnectionUpset

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Example use cases

This quote could be shared during a discussion on emotional intelligence in relationships.

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