Standards are always out of date. That's what makes them standards.
Alan BennettRead
Why do we not care to acknowledge them? The cattle, the body count. We still don't like to admit the war was even partly our fault because so many of our people died. A photograph on every mantlepiece. And all this mourning has veiled the truth. It's not so much lest we forget, as lest we remember. Because you should realise the Cenotaph and the Last Post and all that stuff is concerned, there's no better way of forgetting something than by commemorating it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the way we commemorate past tragedies while also forgetting the underlying truths about them.
In this quote, Alan Bennett critiques the collective tendency to remember the fallen in war through commemoration yet simultaneously choose to overlook the complexities and responsibilities surrounding those events. He suggests that while memorials like the Cenotaph and rituals such as the Last Post are designed to honor the dead, they can also serve to obscure the deeper truths and failings of society, thus allowing people to forget rather than properly confront the realities of war and its consequences.
Themes
WarMemoryCommemorationTruthLoss
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech honoring veterans, this quote can be used to highlight the complexity of remembering those who served.
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