If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
A certain person wondered why a big strong girl like me wouldn't keep a job which paid a normal salary. I took my time to lead her and to read her every page. Even minimal people can't survive on minimal wage. A certain person wondered why I wait all week for you. I didn't have the words to describe just what you do. I said you had the motion of the ocean in your walk, and when you solve my riddles you don't even have to talk.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the struggles of survival and the depth of connection between individuals.
In this quote, Maya Angelou highlights the disparity between societal expectations and personal realities, particularly for those who struggle to make ends meet. The speaker also expresses the profound emotional and physical qualities of a loved one, suggesting that true connection transcends mere words and resonates deeply on a personal level.
Themes
RelationshipsSurvivalLoveConnectionStruggle
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used during a speech about the challenges of low-wage workers.
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