The man who begins to go to bed forty minutes before he opens his bedroom door is bored; that is to say, he is not living.
Arnold BennettRead
The chances are that you have already come to believe that happiness is unattainable. But men have attained it. And they have attained it by realizing that happiness does not spring from the procuring of physical or mental pleasure, but from the development of reason and the adjustment of conduct to principles.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Happiness is achievable through reason and aligning one's actions with principles, not just seeking pleasure.
This quote emphasizes the idea that many people mistakenly believe that happiness is out of reach. However, Arnold Bennett asserts that true happiness can be achieved by cultivating reason and aligning one's behavior with good principles, rather than merely seeking fleeting pleasures, whether physical or mental. It suggests that the path to happiness is more about personal growth and moral integrity than about external gratification.
Themes
HappinessReasonPrinciplesConductPersonal Growth
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote in a self-help seminar to discuss the nature of true happiness.
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