Do good by stealth, and blush to find it fame.
Alexander PopeRead
Chaste to her husband, frank to all beside, A teeming mistress, but a barren bride.
Interpretation
The quote contrasts the expectations and realities of marital fidelity and sexual potency.
In this quote, Alexander Pope highlights the complex dynamics of marriage and infidelity, illustrating how a woman may be loyal and virtuous to her husband while simultaneously engaging in extramarital relationships. The term 'teeming mistress' suggests a vibrant sexual life outside of marriage, juxtaposed with the idea of being a 'barren bride' who is unable or unwilling to bear children, emphasizing the societal pressures surrounding fidelity and procreation.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about the complexities of modern marriage.
Do good by stealth, and blush to find it fame.
What dire offence from am'rous causes springs, What mighty contests rise from trivial things.
Fair tresses man's imperial race ensnare; And beauty draws us with a single hair.
An honest man's the noblest work of God.
One thought of thee puts all the pomp to flight;_x000D_ _x000D_ Priests, tapers, temples, swim before my sight.
Who breaks a butterfly on a wheel?
I cried a river of tears but he was too heavy to float on them. So I dragged him with me these years across an ocean.
What should I do about the wild and the tame? The wild heart that wants to be free, and the tame heart that wants to come home. I want to be held. I don't want you to come too close. I want you to scoop me up and bring me home at nights. I don't want to tell you where I am. I want to keep a place among the rocks where no one can find me. I want to be with you.
The source of sexual power is curiosity, passion. You are watching its little flame die of asphyxiation. Sex does not thrive on monotony. Without feeling, inventions, moods, no surprises in bed. Sex must be mixed with tears, laughter, words, promises, scenes, jealousy, envy, all of the spices of fear, foreign travel, new faces, novels, stories, dreams, fantasies, music, dancing, opium, wine.
There's a lot of me in it. But the character is more egotistical. I'm also egotistical, but not the way the character is. This guy is successful, he has everything, but his wife has left him. The most important value - love - is missing. What is wrong with this institution called 'marriage'? What is wrong with this institution called 'the pursuit of happiness'?
There's no way I could pay you back but my plan is to show you that I understand, you are appreciated
I know I can't tell you what it's like to be gay. But I can tell you what it's not. It's not hiding behind words, Mama. Like family and decency and Christianity.
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