To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
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Civility does not ...mean the mere outward gentleness of speech cultivated for the occasion, but an inborn gentleness and desire to do the opponent good.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Civility is an inner quality that reflects a genuine intention to do good for others, not just polite speech.
Mahatma Gandhi's quote emphasizes that true civility goes beyond superficial politeness; it is rooted in an intrinsic desire to benevolently engage with others. This perspective suggests that while outward appearances can be crafted, the true measure of civility lies in the heartβs intention to uplift and support others, including those with differing viewpoints.
Themes
CivilityGentlenessKindnessOpponentGoodwill
In practice
Example use cases
During a debate, one might use this quote to underline the importance of respectful discourse.
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