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Be compassionate to everyone. Don't just search for whatever it is that annoys and frightens you-see beyond those things to the basic human being. Especially see the child in the man or woman. Even if they are destroying you, allow a moment to see how lost in their own delusion and suffering they are.
Alice Walker
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Be empathetic towards others, understanding their struggles rather than focusing on their flaws.

This quote by Alice Walker emphasizes the importance of compassion and understanding in our interactions with others. It encourages us to look past the negative behaviors that may disturb or frighten us and to recognize the deeper humanity and suffering within everyone, suggesting that even those who seem to harm us are often struggling with their own issues and delusions. By seeing the 'child' within each person, we can foster a greater sense of empathy and connection.

Themes

CompassionEmpathyUnderstandingHumanitySuffering

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about forgiveness and empathy during a workshop.

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