Death is staring too long into the burning sun and the relief of entering a cool, dark room.
Elisabeth Kubler-RossRead
Consciously or not, we are all on a quest for answers, trying to learn the lessons of life. We grapple with fear and guilt. We search for meaning, love, and power. We try to understand fear, loss, and time. We seek to discover who we are and how we can become truly happy.
Interpretation
This quote reflects the universal human experience of seeking understanding and purpose in life.
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross emphasizes that, whether we are aware of it or not, our lives involve a continuous quest for answers to profound questions about existence. We confront emotions like fear and guilt as we strive for meaning, love, and happiness, highlighting the journey of self-discovery and the pursuit of a fulfilling life.
In practice
This quote can be used in a personal development workshop to illustrate the importance of self-reflection.
Death is staring too long into the burning sun and the relief of entering a cool, dark room.
The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not "get over" the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same nor would you want to.
The simple life on the farm was everything to me. Nothing was more relaxing after a long plane flight than to reach the winding driveway that led up to my house. The quiet of the night was more soothing than a sleeping pill.
The ultimate lesson all of us have to learn is unconditional love, which includes not only others but ourselves as well.
There is no joy without hardship. If not for death, would we appreciate life? If not for hate, would we know the ultimate goal is love? At these moments you can either hold on to negativity and look for blame, or you can choose to heal and keep on loving.
We're put here on Earth to learn our own lessons. No one can tell you what your lessons are; it is part of your personal journey to discover them. On these journeys we may be given a lot, or just a little bit, of the things we must grapple with, but never more than we can handle.
'Tis not enough your counsel still be true; Blunt truths more mischief than nice falsehoods do.
The mind that doggedly insists on prejudice often has not intelligence enough to change.
No doubt another may also think for me; but it is not therefore desirable that he should do so to the exclusion of my thinking for myself.
I hear no one boast, that he hath a knowledge of the Scriptures, but that he owneth a Bible written in golden characters. And tell me then, what profiteth this? The Holy Scriptures were not given to us that we should enclose them in books, but that we should engrave them upon our hearts.
When you recognize this, you also realize that you are now free to give up this futile conflict, this inner state of war.
The ability to calm your soul and wait before God is one of the most difficult things in the Christian life. Our old nature is restless... the world around us is frantically in a hurry. But a restless heart usually leads to a reckless life.
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