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The constant reprimands made me hyperconscious of my own performance, and so instead of getting rid of self, I had become embedded in the egoism I was supposed to transcend. Now I was beginning to understand that a silence that is not clamorous with vexation and worried self-regard can become part of the texture of your mind, can seep into you, moment by moment, and gradually change you.
Karen Armstrong
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote reflects on the idea that external criticism can lead to heightened self-awareness, potentially reinforcing one's ego rather than fostering true self-transcendence.

Karen Armstrong's quote delves into the psychological impact of constant reprimands and criticisms on an individual's self-perception. It suggests that being overly aware of one's performance due to external pressure can lead to increased egoism, counteracting the intention to rise above oneself. However, it also highlights the transformative power of adopting a quiet mind, where the absence of self-focused worries can gradually alter one's state of being, promoting genuine growth and change.

Themes

EgoSelf-AwarenessTranscendenceSilenceChange

In practice

Example use cases

During a workshop on self-improvement, this quote can illustrate the importance of focusing on internal growth.

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