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We are constantly - in order to cope with painful realities - shuffling through third-rate, half-remembered fantasies taken from movies, from TV, from people we admire. We do this individually, we do it collectively - we tell stories to escape our most painful truths.
Joshua Oppenheimer
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What this quote means

We seek refuge in fantasies to avoid facing painful truths.

This quote by Joshua Oppenheimer highlights the human tendency to escape from reality by immersing ourselves in tales and fantasies drawn from various sources like movies, television, and admired personalities. It suggests that both individually and collectively, we create narratives that help us cope with the harshness of our realities, illustrating a profound aspect of how we process pain and suffering through storytelling.

Themes

FantasyRealityStorytellingCopingPain

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Example use cases

In a discussion about mental health, one might say, 'As Joshua Oppenheimer once noted, we often turn to stories to escape our painful truths.'

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