Everyone wants to be appreciated, so if you appreciate someone, don't keep it a secret.
Mary Kay AshRead
Our country has a painful history of mistrust between police departments and people of color. The overuse of stop-and-frisk has made those divisions much worse.
Interpretation
The quote addresses the deep-rooted mistrust between law enforcement and communities of color, worsened by policing practices.
Bill De Blasio's quote highlights the historical and ongoing struggles between police forces and marginalized communities, particularly people of color. He emphasizes that aggressive policing techniques, such as stop-and-frisk, have not only failed to bridge these gaps but have exacerbated the divisions and feelings of mistrust, pointing to a pressing need for reform and understanding in these relationships.
In practice
During a community meeting about police relations, this quote could be used to emphasize the need for dialogue and change.
Everyone wants to be appreciated, so if you appreciate someone, don't keep it a secret.
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