The one ironclad rule is that I have to try. I have to walk into my writing room and pick up my pen every weekday morning
Anne TylerRead
I don't know what takes more courage: surviving a lifelong endurance test because you once made a promise or breaking free, disrupting all your world.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on the courage required to either uphold a lifelong commitment or to choose personal freedom over obligation.
In this quote, Anne Tyler explores the conflicting nature of courage in the context of promises and personal freedom. It suggests that sustaining a commitment, despite the challenges it brings, requires a kind of bravery, while simultaneously, the act of breaking free from such commitments can also be incredibly courageous. This duality highlights the complexity of human relationships and the decisions we must make in our lives.
In practice
During a motivational speech about facing life's challenges.
The one ironclad rule is that I have to try. I have to walk into my writing room and pick up my pen every weekday morning
I just want to be told a story, and I want to believe I'm living that story, and I don't give a thought to influences or method or any other writerly concerns
I do write long, long character notes - family background, history, details of appearance - much more than will ever appear in the novel. I think this is what lifts a book from that early calculated, artificial stage.
It seems to me that since I've had children, I've grown richer and deeper. They may have slowed down my writing for a while, but when I did write, I had more of a self to speak from.
And she thought what a clean, simple life she would have led if it weren't for love.
There is no true life. Your true life is the one you end up with, whatever it may be. You just do the best you can with what you've got.
Fear is at the root of so many of the barriers that women face. Fear of not being liked. Fear of making the wrong choice. Fear of drawing negative attention. Fear of overreaching. Fear of being judged. Fear of failure. And the holy trinity of fear: the fear of being a bad mother/wife/daughter.
Our health care workers are the heroes of the Covid-19 response.
I'm looking to no man walking this earth for approval of what I'm doing.
Except a person be part coward, it is not a compliment to say he is brave.
If you are lucky enough to never experience any sort of adversity, we won't know how resilient you are. It's only when you're faced with obstacles, stress, and other environmental threats that resilience, or the lack of it, emerges: Do you succumb or do you surmount?
Consider what you want to do in relation to what you are capable of doing. Climbing is, above all, a matter of integrity.
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