There, by the starlit fences The wanderer halts and hears My soul that lingers sighing About the glimmering weirs.
A. E. HousmanRead
Give crowns and pounds and guineas But not your heart away; Give pearls away and rubies, But keep your fancy free.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that material wealth is less valuable than emotional attachment and freedom in love.
In this quote, A. E. Housman conveys the idea that while it is acceptable to give away material possessions, one should protect their heart and emotions. The metaphor of giving away crowns and jewels represents the idea of generosity, but the emphasis on keeping one's 'fancy free' highlights the importance of emotional independence and the caution against becoming too attached or losing oneself in romantic ventures.
In practice
In a wedding speech to emphasize the importance of emotional bonds over material gifts.
There, by the starlit fences The wanderer halts and hears My soul that lingers sighing About the glimmering weirs.
Who made the world I cannot tell; 'Tis made, and here am I in hell. My hand, though now my knuckles bleed, I never soiled with such a deed.
I am not a pessimist but a pejorist (as George Eliot said she was not an optimist but a meliorist); and that philosophy is founded on my observation of the world, not on anything so trivial and irrelevant as personal history.
Lovers lying two and two Ask not whom they sleep beside, And the bridegroom all night through Never turns him to the bride.
And malt does more than Milton can to justify God's ways to man.
Oh, 'tis jesting, dancing, drinking_x000D_ _x000D_ Spins the heavy world around.
For we are so preciously loved by God that we cannot even comprehend it.
She's a rare vase, out of a cat's reach, on its shelf.
Perhaps we were friends first and lovers second. But then perhaps this is what lovers are.
Once you become more and more watchful of your inner workings things become simple. Then a few things have to be dropped. One has not to be jealous if one wants to be loving. It becomes so clear that there is no question about it; one can simply see the point that if you are jealous, love is impossible. Jealousy is bound to create misery. Jealousy is part of ego, the shadow of the ego, the shadow of a shadow - and love needs egolessness. They can't go together, they can't co-exist.
And I, a materialist who does not believe in the starry heaven promised to a human being, for this dog and for every dog I believe in heaven, yes, I believe in a heaven that I will never enter, but he waits for me wagging his big fan of a tail so I, soon to arrive, will feel welcomed.
Every act of love is a work of peace no matter how small.
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