When we harbor negative emotions toward others or toward ourselves, or when we intentionally create pain for others, we poison our own physical and spiritual systems. By far the strongest poison to the human spirit is the inability to forgive oneself or another person. It disables a person's emotional resources. The challenge...is to refine our capacity to love others as well as ourselves and to develop the power of forgiveness.
I am convinced that the deepest desire within each of us is to be liberated from the controlling influences of our own psychic madness or patterns of fear. All other things—the disdain of ordinary life, the need to control others rather than be controlled, the craving for material goods as a means of security and protection against the winds of chaos—are external props that serve as substitutes for the real battle, which is the one waged within the individual soul.
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The quote emphasizes that true freedom lies in overcoming our internal struggles rather than seeking external validation or material security.
Caroline Myss articulates a profound understanding of human desire, asserting that what we truly seek is liberation from our internal fears and chaotic thoughts. She indicates that many of our external pursuits, such as the desire for control or material possessions, are merely distractions that prevent us from addressing the real conflict within ourselves, advocating for a journey inward to confront and resolve these inner battles for true peace and fulfillment.
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In a motivational speech about personal growth, one might say, 'As Caroline Myss puts it, our greatest desire is to free ourselves from our internal chaos.'
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