And enough for me that when my hand touched your shoulder, you leaned on me; and when you felt me slip away, you called my name.
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If desire did not dim the brain, nobody would ever get married, drunk, or fat. ~Val
Interpretation
What this quote means
Desire often leads people to make irrational choices that can result in significant life changes.
This quote by Orson Scott Card reflects on the power of desire and how it can cloud our judgment. The statement suggests that if desire did not influence our thinking, the impulsive decisions that lead to marriage, excessive drinking, or overeating would not occur. It highlights the dual nature of desire as both a driving force for ambition and a factor that can lead to detrimental outcomes.
Themes
DesireChoiceJudgmentImpulseLife Decisions
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding toast, one might reflect on the influence of desire in our lives and relationships.
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