If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
The desire to reach for the stars is ambitious. The desire to reach hearts is wise.
Interpretation
Ambition is important, but true wisdom lies in connecting with others emotionally.
In this quote, Maya Angelou highlights the distinction between ambition and wisdom. While it is commendable to strive for lofty goals and aspirations ('to reach for the stars'), true wisdom is found in the ability to empathize with and connect to others on a deeper emotional level ('to reach hearts'). This suggests that the most profound successes are those that enrich our relationships rather than solely focus on personal achievements.
In practice
This quote can be used in a motivational speech about the value of emotional intelligence in leadership.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Facts are facts and will not disappear on account of your likes.
Man is almost mad-mad because he is seeking something which he has already got; mad because he's not aware of who he is; mad because he hopes, desires and then ultimately, feels frustrated. Frustration is bound to be there because you cannot find yourself by seeking; you are already there. The seeking has to stop, the search has to drop.
Among a man's many good possessions, A good command of speech has no equal. Prosperity and ruin issue from the power of the tongue. Therefore, guard yourself against thoughtless speech.
The assumption that what currently exists must necessarily exist is the acid that corrodes all visionary thinking.
The best way to be original is to be yourself.
Ideas are the easy part. I spend a lot of time batting them away, trying to keep them from distracting me from what I actually have to focus on and finish. A lot of times, they are a siren temptress beckoning me with the promise of a much shorter, simpler, more slender novel over the horizon, but of course that's very dangerous.
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