Life with most teenagers was like having a low-grade bladder infection. It hurts, but you had to tough it out.
Left to my own devices, would I trade this for firm thighs, fewer wrinkles, a better memory? On some days. That's why it's such a blessing I'm not left to my own devices. Because the truth is I have amazing friends and a deep faith in God, to whom I can turn. I have a cool kid, a sweet boyfriend, darling pets. I've learned to pay attention to life, and to listen. I'd give up all this for a flatter belly? Are you crazy?
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of appreciating relationships and life's blessings over superficial desires.
In this quote, Anne Lamott reflects on the contrast between societal pressures regarding physical appearance and the deeper joys found in relationships, faith, and personal growth. She acknowledges that while there are days when superficial desires may tempt her, the richness of her friendships, family, and faith far outweighs the pursuit of fleeting physical ideals. This highlights the significance of valuing what truly matters in life.
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Example use cases
In a discussion about body positivity and self-acceptance, this quote can be a reminder to value what truly matters.
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All quotes →Or you might shout at the top of your lungs or whisper into your sleeve, "I hate you, God." That is a prayer too, because it is real, it is truth, and maybe it is the first sincere thought you've had in months.
Your problem is how you are going to spend this one odd and precious life you have been issued. Whether you're going to spend it trying to look good and creating the illusion that you have power over people and circumstances, or whether you are going to taste it, enjoy it and find out the truth about who you are.
It is hard to remember that you are a cherished spiritual being when you're burping up apple fritters and Cheetos.
Gorgeous, amazing things come into our lives when we are paying attention: mangoes, grandnieces, Bach, ponds. This happens more often when we have as little expectation as possible. If you say, "Well, that's pretty much what I thought I'd see," you are in trouble. At that point you have to ask yourself why you are even here. [...] Astonishing material and revelation appear in our lives all the time. Let it be. Unto us, so much is given. We just have to be open for business.
...because when people have seen you at their worst, you don't have to put on the mask as much.
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