I define power as 'control over one's life.' A balanced life is far superior to the male definition of power: earning money someone else spends while he dies sooner.
Is there discrimination against women? Yes. There's no denying that the old boys' network is alive and well. But there's also discrimination against men.
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What this quote means
The quote addresses gender discrimination, acknowledging that both women and men face discrimination in different forms.
Warren Farrell's quote highlights the ongoing issue of discrimination within society, noting that while women often face systemic barriers such as the 'old boys' network', men also experience forms of discrimination. This dual acknowledgment invites a broader conversation about gender equality and the complexities of discrimination that impact all genders, challenging the perception that one gender's struggles can overshadow those of another.
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In a discussion about gender equality during a panel, one might reference this quote to illustrate the complexity of discrimination.
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