In any dispute, each side thinks it's in the right and the other side is demons.
Interpretation
Disputes often lead individuals to view themselves as just and others as evil.
This quote by Steven Pinker reflects on the nature of conflict and disagreement, suggesting that in any contentious situation, involved parties tend to see themselves as morally correct while perceiving their opponents as fundamentally misguided or malevolent. This illustrates the psychological divide that occurs in disputes, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding opposing viewpoints to foster resolution and dialogue.
In practice
During a debate on social issues, this quote can be used to highlight the importance of listening to opposing views.
The foundation of individual rights is the assumption that people have wants and needs and are authorities on what those wants and needs are. If people's stated desires were just some kind of erasable inscription or reprogrammable brainwashing, any atrocity could be justified.
The linguistic clumsiness of tourists and students might be the price we pay for the linguistic genius we displayed as babies, just as the decrepitude of age in the price we pay for the vigor of youth.
If we are not to abandon values such as peace and equality, or our commitments to science and truth, then we must pry these values away from claims about our psychological makeup that are vulnerable to being proven false.
We adults protect ourselves with laws, police, workplace regulations and social norms and there is no conceivable reason why children should be left more vulnerable, other that laziness or callousness in considering what life is like from their point of view.
The idea that children are passive repositories to be shaped by their parents has been massively overstated. A child's peer group is a far greater determinant of its development and achievements than parental aspiration.
Reason is non-negotiable. Try to argue against it, or to exclude it from some realm of knowledge, and you've already lost the argument, because you're using reason to make your case. ... We don't "believe" in reason.
All the fish needs is to get lost in the water. All man needs is to get lost in Tao.
A quarrel is quickly settled when deserted by one party; there is no battle unless there be two.
The greatest of all crosses is self. If we die in part every day, we shall have but little to do on the last. These little daily deaths will destroy the power of the final dying.
It seems that the right of freedom of speech that was enshrined in numerous constitutions is now under attack by religious institutions.
This suspense is terrible. I hope it will last.
If we lived in a state where virtue was profitable, common sense would make us saintly. But since we see that avarice, anger, pride and stupidity commonly profit far beyond charity, modesty, justice and thought, perhaps we must stand fast a little, even at the risk of being heroes.
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