Distrust compassion; prefer dignity for yourself and others. Don't be afraid to be thought arrogant or selfish.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of maintaining dignity over merely showing compassion.
Christopher Hitchens advocates for the idea that individuals should prioritize dignity for themselves and others rather than relying solely on compassion. He warns against the societal tendency to equate compassion with virtue, suggesting that true respect and self-worth might sometimes be perceived as arrogance or selfishness in a world that often values emotional responses over the inherent dignity of individuals.
In practice
In a motivational seminar about self-respect.
In a public dialogue with Salman in London he [Edward Said] had once described the Palestinian plight as one where his people, expelled and dispossessed by Jewish victors, were in the unique historical position of being 'the victims of the victims': there was something quasi-Christian, I thought, in the apparent humility of that statement.
What can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.
Never ask while you are doing it if what you are doing is fun. Don't introduce even your most reliably witty acquaintance as someone who will set the table on a roar.
[E]xceptional claims demand exceptional evidence.
The worst days are when you feel foggy in the head - chemo-brain they call it. It's awful because you feel boring. As well as bored. And stupid. And resigned.
Let me tell you something: for hundreds of thousands of years, this kind of discussion would have been impossible to have, or those like us would have been having it at the risk of our lives. Religion now comes to us in this smiley-face, ingratiating way β because itβs had to give so much more ground and because we know so much more. But youβve got no right to forget the way it behaved when it was strong, and when it really did believe that it had God on its side.
Whosoever is delighted in solitude is either a wild beast or a god.
Understand: any phenomenon in the world is by nature complex. The people you deal with are equally complex. Any action sets off a limitless chain of reactions. It is never so simple as A leads to B. B will lead to C, D and beyond.
If one believed in angels one would feel that they must love us best when we are asleep and cannot hurt each other; and what a mercy it is that once in every twenty-four hours we are too utterly weary to go on being unkind.
Most minds are the slaves of external circumstances, and conform to any hand that undertakes to mould them.
The average is that which no person quite ever is.
Soul of all souls, life of all life - you are That. _x000D_ Seen and unseen, moving and unmoving - you are That. _x000D_ The road that leads to the City is endless; _x000D_ Go without head and feet _x000D_ and you'll already be there. _x000D_ What else could you be? - you are That.
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