The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function.
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Don't be so anxious about it,' she laughed. 'I'm not used to being loved. I wouldn't know what to do; I never got the trick of it.' She looked down at him, shy and fatigued. 'So here we are. I told you years ago that I had the makings of Cinderella.' He took her hand; she drew it back instinctively and then replaced it in his. 'Beg your pardon. Not even used to being touched. But I'm not afraid of you, if you stay quiet and don't move suddenly.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses the vulnerability and uncertainty that comes with being loved, showcasing a fear of intimacy and the hesitance to accept affection.
In this quote, the character reveals her deep-seated anxiety about love and physical affection. The mention of not being used to love or touch highlights her past experiences that have made her cautious and weary of emotional connections. Despite her initial fear, there is a hint of hope as she acknowledges the presence of a connection, likening herself to Cinderella, suggesting that even though she feels unworthy or ill-equipped to handle love, she is open to the possibility of it. This reflects the complex emotions surrounding intimacy and the journey from fear to acceptance.
Themes
LoveVulnerabilityIntimacyFearAcceptance
In practice
Example use cases
This quote would be perfect for a relationship workshop to illustrate the challenges of accepting love.
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